Episodes
Episodes



Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Episode 117 - Make Today a Great Day: 4 Affirmations to Crush Your 2026 Goals
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Host Ryan DeFaber shares a practical approach to goal achievement using positive affirmations focused on self-belief, action & focus, resilience, and attraction. He explains five ways to use affirmations effectively — read them daily, feel the emotion, post them in your space, make them personal, and visualize success — and ties each point to real-life examples.
Ryan also opens up about his own goals for 2026, including fitness, physical therapy, and work promotion, and stresses the power of accountability, routine, and community support to turn challenges into opportunities.



Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
Episode 116 - 2025's Proudest Moments: Family, Fitness, and Work Wins
Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
Host Ryan DeFaber looks back on his proudest moments of 2025, sharing personal and professional highlights that shaped his year.Topics include a record year at work, monthly date nights with his wife, advocating for his kids in school and sports, the Bears Den Gym community workouts, a father-son vacation, the podcast's return, golf improvements, and his father's positive transition after loss.



Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Episode 115 - Work-Life Balance Is Real — Protect It Before It’s Gone
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Host Ryan DeFaber explains why work-life balance matters, why it’s not a strict 50/50 split, and how to create harmony between career demands and personal well-being.He shares practical tips—set clear hours, prioritize tasks, take breaks, say no, delegate, pursue hobbies, and ask for flexibility—and uses Alexander the Great’s final wishes to remind listeners that health, time, and relationships matter more than wealth.



Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Host Ryan DeFaber kicks off the Bears Den Gym Winter Series: weekly Saturday workouts through December to February for adults and middle-school kids in the Charlotte area. Sessions mix circuit-style conditioning for adults with age-appropriate strength, agility, and speed training to help kids prepare for spring sports.The series emphasizes accountability, discipline, and pushing through adversity in cold conditions, and invites local listeners to join and follow updates on social channels.



Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Episode 113 - Turning 13: A Dad-Son Talk About Puberty, Phones & Boundaries
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Host Ryan DeFaber sits down with his soon-to-be-13-year-old son Nolan to explore the transition into the teenage years, covering puberty, changing friendships, independence, attitude, and everyday challenges like chores and appetite changes.The episode also addresses practical parenting topics such as social media limits, phone-free gatherings, building discipline and routines, and managing acne and voice changes as kids grow into teens.



Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Episode 112 - Why 'Shrink the Game' Is the Wrong Move for Golf
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Host Ryan DeFaber discusses the social media “shrink the game” movement and argues against it, using post-pandemic participation data, supply-and-demand economics, and personal experience on course costs and pace of play.He suggests solutions like enforcing pace-of-play rules, promoting etiquette, and highlighting affordable options so golf can remain accessible and grow for future generations.



Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Episode 111 - When Motivation Fades: Why Discipline Wins
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Host Ryan DeFaber explores the difference between motivation and discipline, sharing personal stories from his fitness journey, diet struggles during COVID, and relationship commitments. He explains why discipline is the foundation that keeps you moving when motivation wanes and offers practical reminders to maintain routines and priorities.



Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
Episode 110 - Life & Podcast Update
Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
Welcome back everyone. On today's episode I give an update on where I have been on the past year, the challenges I have been facing, and the future of the Podcast.











